blankswf.blogspot.com: January 2007

Thursday, January 18, 2007

Happy 21st Birthday to Sis!!

January 17th,2007- Sis turn 21!!

Turning 21, she change her posing style-->sexy-fingerbite!!

Went to menjalara to pickup a cheese cake for sis around 8 last night. Then pick her up from campus and we headed to Bangsar for our celebration+dinner.

She's supposed to be occupied with her fieldwork last night, so last sunday, we already bought her a birthday cake and kinda celebrated with her. N so she wasn't expecting anything else. Then her fieldwork was canceled last minute, so we asked her out for dinner with us. Again, she wasn't expecting anything more than a dinner.

Then, after eating. She saw the cake!! Her favorite CHEESE CAKE!! (She started smiling gleefully.)

Finger licking good!!

Mom and sis!

After the cake, mum presented her a present!!!

N her eyes got watery.. LOL!!

Dad must be really thankful n glad to see his Sammy gal turn 21 finally, cause his eyes became watery as well!!

And finally, a pic of me with sis.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY SIS!!

LOVE YA MUCH!!

MUACKSSS!!!

Friday, January 12, 2007

Chat Lesson1 : Random Terror!!

Few nights ago i went for mamak with a few of my friends. As we chat, one gal came by n said to my friend.

girl : "Eh, are u XXX?"
fren : "Yes, but.. Do i know you?"
girl : "We chat before ma... Recognize you from your display picture, i'm YYY a...”
fren : "Oh.."

n they went over to the next table n abandoned us.

Then another mamak session i had 2 nights ago, this chat fren topic came up again.

B4 I continue, I think I should define the chat friend that I’m saying here.

Chat friend: people that u meet n know on the net. They have zero connection at all to you or your immediate friends or in any aspect of your live.

Continuing my story, my friends talk about how they chat n meet up with their chat friends. N how they reach the meeting place but have to hide at a place far enough so that their chat friends won't notice them yet; but near enough so they can observe who pick up their phone when they give a miss call. N also, how they run away with silent mode on when they noticed the chat friend isn't what they expected to look like. (Cruel) lol..

N throughout the conversation, I’m the only one keeping quiet. I don't have a chat friend!! All the while, I’m very reluctant to look for chat friends. N even if some random people add me in msn or ICQ last time, I’ll be really reluctant to chat with them n give time to break the barrier n stuff thinking that it's totally a waste of time!!

It's so hard to chat online when I know nth bout them n they know nth bout me. Not even looks, not even body movement. Usually I’ll start with name, age, where they come from n stuff like that. But again, I always sound so stupid asking question like that. Besides, after all these are done, I’ll be out of topic!! N then I’ll decide to block that person or we will never chat again.

Then as i was chatting with one of my friend last night, it struck my mind, so i asked him what he chat with his chat friends usually. He told me he never asks for all these personal details, not even name. N it's too formal and very hard to get heated up if i start with this type of conversation. He said just type whatever is in your mind, chat as if u have known him/her for a very long time. Chat like they are one of your closest friend. N things will go on smoothly.

Chat with random topics, random issues, random words, and random thoughts.

So I tried chatting randomly straight after that, it worked!!

So for those who have problem like me(or is it just me??), this is lesson 1 for you.

N others, who have better suggestions, feel free to give me lesson 2.

I'm so noob!!

Thursday, January 11, 2007

Gud guys? Or bad boys?

I always question myself why gals like bad boys instead of good guys?

Gals will go crazy for bad boys but never so for a good gentleman. Gals might like your gentleness, but they love the wildness of the unleashed more. Gals might appreciate your kindness, but they get addicted to their mean-attitude more. Gals might like your consistency but they love their unpredictability more. And so on...

Not convinced yet? Let me give you a few examples, perhaps you might start to realize the reality of it after that.

Have you (girls) ever get reluctant to reply a msg from a guy A (good guy) that (u already knew that he) cares for you but instead, initiate an sms conversation with another guy B (bad boy) who sometimes reply your msg n sometimes don't? It’s because you know that this guy A is interested in you, n he will continue to initiate conversations and continue replying every one of your msg instantly even if you don't reply him at times isn’t it? You'll tend to take him for granted. And you'll probably loose interest and get bored of his consistency pretty soon isn't it?

Or in another situation, lets assume guy A (good guy) dated you for a movie at night, but that afternoon, guy B (bad boy) call u up and say this :"I’ll pick you up tonight at 8. Be ready." and hang up without giving you a chance to speak.

Assume that u r interested in both of them. Thinking that you can go for movie with guy A again next time, but worried that Guy B might not date you again n with a little bit of curiosity, the chances are you'll probably call up guy A to cancel the date n go out with guy B instead isn’t it?

Now let’s say, u waited till 930 and still waiting, guy B called up and says he can’t make it tonight. You might be angry with him at 1st. But only to find out that you start wanting more of him isn't it? Then guy A called and realize that you are upset, so you told him everything and he consoled you, you will appreciate what he just did for you, but then that'll only make you treasure his role as a good friend more and happy to keep him as a friend as long as possible. So at the end of the day, the one(good guy) who cheer u up n treat u good will only end up as a friend, but the one who make you upset but still able to grab your heart will be guy B(bad boy).

Again, these are all mere examples that I came up with. Not something that I've gone through but I believe it happens. So, feel free to share your thoughts.