I always question myself why gals like bad boys instead of good guys?
Gals will go crazy for bad boys but never so for a good gentleman. Gals might like your gentleness, but they love the wildness of the unleashed more. Gals might appreciate your kindness, but they get addicted to their mean-attitude more. Gals might like your consistency but they love their unpredictability more. And so on...
Not convinced yet? Let me give you a few examples, perhaps you might start to realize the reality of it after that.
Have you (girls) ever get reluctant to reply a msg from a guy A (good guy) that (u already knew that he) cares for you but instead, initiate an sms conversation with another guy B (bad boy) who sometimes reply your msg n sometimes don't? It’s because you know that this guy A is interested in you, n he will continue to initiate conversations and continue replying every one of your msg instantly even if you don't reply him at times isn’t it? You'll tend to take him for granted. And you'll probably loose interest and get bored of his consistency pretty soon isn't it?
Or in another situation, lets assume guy A (good guy) dated you for a movie at night, but that afternoon, guy B (bad boy) call u up and say this :"I’ll pick you up tonight at 8. Be ready." and hang up without giving you a chance to speak.
Assume that u r interested in both of them. Thinking that you can go for movie with guy A again next time, but worried that Guy B might not date you again n with a little bit of curiosity, the chances are you'll probably call up guy A to cancel the date n go out with guy B instead isn’t it?
Now let’s say, u waited till 930 and still waiting, guy B called up and says he can’t make it tonight. You might be angry with him at 1st. But only to find out that you start wanting more of him isn't it? Then guy A called and realize that you are upset, so you told him everything and he consoled you, you will appreciate what he just did for you, but then that'll only make you treasure his role as a good friend more and happy to keep him as a friend as long as possible. So at the end of the day, the one(good guy) who cheer u up n treat u good will only end up as a friend, but the one who make you upset but still able to grab your heart will be guy B(bad boy).
Again, these are all mere examples that I came up with. Not something that I've gone through but I believe it happens. So, feel free to share your thoughts.
Thursday, January 11, 2007
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3 comments:
it's the same for guys
there're some guys crazy over girls that they can never reach
so, they tried so hard and then give a lot of promises, and finally touched the girls
but in the end, the guy wanna break up because the girl issn't perfect as he thought of
guys looking for perfection too
i m not overgeneralizing
there's guys doing like that
i don't deny the fact u're saying
but not all the girls
sometimes, people are not just satisfy with what they have
they want something, want more and more, agree with me?
so
please, don't complain
before u complain, please, do think where u stand first
i'm not criticizing u or shoot u or whatever
i'm just saying what i think, giving u another point of view, from the girls
hope u don't mind
sorry if i annoyed u
:P
hmm.. thanks for the comment. but this..
"i'm not criticizing u or shoot u or whatever
i'm just saying what i think, giving u another point of view, from the girls
hope u don't mind"
din i already asked for opinions in my post? so of cuz i wun mind ya? lol..
and this..
"so
please, don't complain
before u complain, please, do think where u stand first"
May i first ask which part of the post did i sound like complaining? not at all ya? was just sharing some thoughts.
n one thing, can ppl be a lil open about things n not feel like when i post, i'm always trying to bring the gals down? cuz the way u replied sounds like u are hurt or sth.. i wonder..
i do agree with what u say bout ppl wanting more n accept that as one of the reasons, n if u disagree with any part of my thoughts, we can discuss bout it ya? from a 3RD PERSON VIEWPOINT. dun always take things so seriously n so personal. it frightens me honestly. chill..
most of all.. i come in PEACE!! :)
i think if a guy keep on sending sms to a gurl, that gurl might feel annoyed. this is possibly why the gurl don't want to reply the sms.. and it depends on what is written in the sms also la.. if it is something that can cheer the receiver up then it's still ok.. those smses asking 'what are you doing now?','what u eat for lunch?' and so on are really stupid.. the gurl might feel like the guy is 'checking' her instead of 'caring'. so she dun think there is a need to reply the sms.
people like challenges, not only gurls. they challenge that someone to change their attitudes for them and they probably will satisfy on it. coz they might b proud that they've done something 'impossible'.
anyway, this is only my point of view.. no offence to anyone :)
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